Fool me once, shame on you.
Any person my age who has some form of decency and self-respect, (a girl for that matter) would have these priorities in life.
Education.
Family bonds and friendship.
Love, perhaps.
Have a little fun, while you’re at it! Maintain a healthy social life.
No where in the equation is there “making enemies”, especially if that person has done no wrong to you. If there are rumours and hearsay, you best solve that misunderstanding like any self-respecting adult would, by “talking” it out.
Sounds simple, right?
Not unless you’re dealing with children who, despite their age, wish they were still in high school playing tai-kar-che :)
An attitude like that will get you into trouble in the real world, my dear.
If you are NOT a person of decency and self-respect, (a girl for that matter) and have no priorities in life, then this entire post will make no sense to you.
You want to make enemies as often as you change your underwear, I shake my head and I pity you.
Which was exactly what I did when you committed your wrong unto me.
I shook my head, I pitied you, and I walked away.
Not giving you the satisfaction of me stooping down to your level and do what you did. Pointless.
A mixture between disgust and pity, really.
However, any person who has some form of decency and self-respect, will also know that there is a limit.
That there is a line between taking the high road, and simply defending your honor.
Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me.
And I’ll leave it at that.
November 17th, 2008 at 7:34 am
do i smell a catfight! :D
Good for you for walking away, dont give them the pleasure.
but if there is a second time. break those skinny bones for me please? ;)
November 17th, 2008 at 8:38 am
or maybe someone has been watching too many reruns of episodes of Gossip Girl?…
November 17th, 2008 at 9:54 am
just give that aqua a tight slap
November 17th, 2008 at 10:31 am
why are some ppl so childish! grow up man!
November 17th, 2008 at 11:54 am
i believe people dont get hit for no reason. so yea go talk it out if u dont want enemies. sounds reasonable right?
November 17th, 2008 at 12:58 pm
just a thought.
who are you to dictate and generalise a person’s (a girl for that matter) priorities in life, and otherwise has no self-respect and decency?
seriously.
November 17th, 2008 at 2:36 pm
good on u.
i can honestly say no one who witnessed the outburst was impressed with those girls. so good on u the way u handled this whole childish and petty situation.
people like them may never seem to get what they deserve. But at the end of the day u can’t hide who u are. And you have definitaly shown everyone that’re you’re the better person.
and unfortunately for cynthia. yes, she did pretty much get hit for no reason. i’m sure everyone who was at the party can tell anyone who would want to know.
so don’t let this eat away at u and get you down cause u are so much better than them!! :)
November 17th, 2008 at 2:48 pm
aiyoo all this drama.
*hugs* from down under babe.
*BIG BONE CRUSHING HUGGGG*
:)
November 17th, 2008 at 3:01 pm
couldn’t help but wonder why did it happen in the first place though? if it is true that you got hit then why so in the first place? don’t think it will be that shameless for anyone to do so in the first place i regard?
November 17th, 2008 at 3:31 pm
just my 2 cents,
yes innocent people dont get hit for no reason, unless its children we’re dealing with. children see no rhyme no reason. they think they’re so powerful they can bully whoever they feel like with no consequence
if they had a problem with cynthia, THEY should have TALKED TO HER before resorting to violence. if they did not, then we know just what kind of horrible girls they are
i feel strongly about this because i know a bunch of girls from my old high school who are just like that, hit people for no good reason. in my opinion, it all boils down to jealousy. i dont know the names of the girls who hit cynthia, but i wouldn’t be surprised if its them. terrible
November 17th, 2008 at 3:57 pm
i heard she did not want to talk when they asked her what was the problem. is that true?
November 17th, 2008 at 4:08 pm
just a bunch of childish immature girls with nothing better to do. Cynthia did the right thing by walking away and not giving the girls what they wanted, which was clearly a fight.
November 17th, 2008 at 6:47 pm
oh please.
they randomly stalked up to her and demanded what her problem was when all she was doing was sitting there minding her own business talking to her own friends.
November 17th, 2008 at 7:48 pm
wtf!
babe, I’m here if you need anything okay?
*hugsssssssssssssssssstighttight*
Look out for happymail soon!
been meaning to mail you since I’ve not been talking to you for soooooooo long and we never seem to catch each other online!!
November 18th, 2008 at 2:48 am
You did the right thing.
Chin up :)
November 18th, 2008 at 8:41 am
haiya they jealous.
ok i shuddup i dunno what's going on. but i throw poms poms into the air for you <3 :)
November 18th, 2008 at 9:24 am
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November 18th, 2008 at 10:02 am
Sometimes, after reading emo/angry cryptic posts like this one, I get sad that I’m not there to lend an ear, a shoulder, or possibly even some muscle power in this case haha.
I don’t know what happened, but I’m on TEAM CYNTHIA!
November 18th, 2008 at 11:45 am
Sometimes i feel so sorry for these morons. They don’t know that there are serious consequences for their actions. After i heard about the whole thing, i felt like these girls should dig a big hole and stay there.
No point showing their faces in public anymore, they’ll be shunned anyway..
BOOYAH!
November 18th, 2008 at 11:54 am
was it sonia yong?
that bapuk looking girl
seems like she hasnt changed one bit from her high school days
November 18th, 2008 at 12:40 pm
bapuk looking hhahahahahahaha
November 18th, 2008 at 12:47 pm
sonia yong and phang ju nn
no point keeping their names under wraps, the whole world should know, and is bound to find out anyway. despicable
November 18th, 2008 at 4:01 pm
if what party goer said was true
i think i found the pic of both of them
http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?pid=4577126&id=878035346
November 18th, 2008 at 4:25 pm
sonia yong is a loser.
November 18th, 2008 at 5:27 pm
looks like team cynthia is going strong! Hahaha these girls never learn their lesson and i guess never will..
Just like back in high school, picking on people that they know wont do anything back,
bapuk looking girl? Hahahahahahahaha
November 18th, 2008 at 6:00 pm
ur brains up ur titties darling..
No wonder its gross!!
November 18th, 2008 at 6:32 pm
woah u got hit by two girls? slapped twice? what did u do?
November 18th, 2008 at 6:40 pm
“Anonymous said…
oh please.
they randomly stalked up to her and demanded what her problem was when all she was doing was sitting there minding her own business talking to her own friends.”
read properly first la “dylan”
wah that picture on facebook of the 2 girls really cannot make it Hahahahahahaha
November 19th, 2008 at 2:23 am
story time!!!!
November 19th, 2008 at 8:39 am
I’m a silent reader of yours and by some twisted sonia’s as well. but if it’s true what the girls have done to you, then I’m ditching hers and be on your team. Because I believe you’re better, personality wise and as a person. I mean, it’s quite low for a girl to succumb to fights to settle conflicts. But maybe for them, they thought it would be cool or ‘yeng’. But oh no, it’s all Boo for them.
So, cheer up girl!
-Melrose-
November 19th, 2008 at 9:38 am
did u confront them? or is ranting on your blog the only way u can let your anger disperse and consider it dealing with the situation maturely? by blogging about about it, it shows you arent letting it go and like the drama and love the fact you are getting the attention, its respectable you didnt fight back that day but dissing people on your blog? i dont think thats an act of a bigger person. i’m on neither side, they should not have hit you so all three of you are equally as low.
November 19th, 2008 at 11:08 am
i think the last anonymous is a fucktard.
November 19th, 2008 at 12:22 pm
the last anonymous was right. confront them. especially if you think you got hit for no reason. at least you’d know why They think hitting you was right.
November 19th, 2008 at 12:32 pm
Sonia Yong is my hero! Somebody give her a medal!!
November 19th, 2008 at 1:42 pm
Dear Cynthia, hope you’re ok =) anyway I don’t think Cynthia’s as low as the other two! And she maybe have been expressing her feelings here, but i wldn’t use the word ‘dissing’ that’s too low. Thumbs up for not even including names and being cool about it. Cynthia’s way up in regards to what have happened.
November 19th, 2008 at 3:01 pm
sonia yong and ju nn? I WAS RIGHT! that bunch of girls from my old high school who seems to be jealous of the whole world around them, everyone knows that. and im sure the very few anonymous commenters in here who actually “supports” these 2 girls are probably the same people, maybe even themselves. Pathetic
why should cynthia confront these 2 horrible girls. she’s the victim of the situation and now u expect her to go try talk sense and reason to those monsters? oh please!
November 19th, 2008 at 3:58 pm
I'm not exactly on anyone's side but i think cynthia you should settle this with them personally..and not let them get away with slapping someone just like that!
I wasn't there at the party & therefore wouldn't know what exactly started it, but if everything i read was true (that you got slapped for no reason) i really think she's just jealous of you! because SHE cheated on her bf, dumped him and that you went out with him. (Oh come on im sure everyone knows who im talking about) plus, you're way hotter than her/them! be proud of that =D
November 19th, 2008 at 4:03 pm
omg and u peeps should so check this photo out man. http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?pid=4577126&id=878035346#/photo.php?pid=4576591&id=878035346
her face is like red, oily and patchy. her dressing? omg, super bling bling. she's actually not too bad looking, but i'm just curious who on earth in the right mind would match accessories like this? haven't she heard of less is more? i guess not eih?
November 19th, 2008 at 6:14 pm
what kind of immatured idiots think that hitting is right?
November 19th, 2008 at 8:23 pm
Only those with no morals would result to violence.
I’m a silent reader for a while now and I just feel like I had to speak out. It’s good to walk away, but I think that if they try to do it again you should definitely beat the shit out of them =)
November 19th, 2008 at 10:48 pm
go balai polis make report then go law firm file criminal law suit for assault and battery and intimidation or waht ever la…then take the money go cats whiskers or little black book or dolce gabana if you like then buy purse and dress :D then go mambo :D HAHAHAHA gangsterism is still on a high in KL huh :D anyway cynthia you need help ? my mum is a doctor ??
November 19th, 2008 at 11:16 pm
hahaha all these drama is really taking it’s toll! nonetheless as ironic as it may sound, if it’s trouble that u wanted less then this post isn’t really making much of a deal now i dismay? as much of a bigger person that u are,i find it rather amusing that u’re as hypocritical as u sound,no offence though,its just that i’ve been reading ur ramblings for awhile now and out of all this really cracks up.
no one deserves getting slapped regardlessly,however by the way u’re handling it doesnt really take much for anyone to figure out how all of these unnecessary drama happened in the first place,hope it puts u to place n feel better by now already.
November 20th, 2008 at 4:16 am
what’s with the few anonymous commenters saying this post is about cynthia looking for “attention” or creating trouble? Im reading it again and again and nowhere in it did she give full length details or even the 2 girl’s names to “gain attention”. She didn’t even mentioned there was violence involved
Things were only revealed in this comment box by her friends and supporters. And by the looks of it, she has many. hm i think it wasnt so clever of those 2 girls to mess with a girl like cynthia, who uses her brain and knowledge to fight them, instead of resorting to petty violence
November 20th, 2008 at 4:46 am
walking away is good. :)
screw those two girls la..they are just wannabes.
November 20th, 2008 at 2:27 pm
Way to go cynthia! Can totally relate to how u handled the situation because i’ve been in ur shoes once but not so serious. Just some bapuk girl giving probs indirectly through my bf. She just couldn’t let go of her ex(my bf).
November 20th, 2008 at 2:51 pm
what’s sonia’s blog name?
November 20th, 2008 at 3:44 pm
http://www.xanga.com/dirtylingerie
November 20th, 2008 at 4:18 pm
THAT’S SONIA YONG?! No wonder she feels jealous and threatened by cynthia. She’s the type that tries terribly hard to be noticed and cynthia doesnt even have to do much to make people’s heads turn.
That girl has a high inferiority complex man.
November 20th, 2008 at 4:50 pm
hug hug, hon.
November 20th, 2008 at 4:50 pm
hug hug, hon.
November 20th, 2008 at 10:17 pm
that sonia girl’s got herpes written all over her
November 21st, 2008 at 5:52 pm
abolish ISA!
GO PKR!!!
November 22nd, 2008 at 9:03 pm
well maybe you shouldn’t cock tease every guy, steal someone else’s boyfriend, behave like a slut, tell guys you’d like to sleep with them and later claim attempted sexual harassment, dying to be famous, and your little whiny bitch attitude, you might not have received that tight slap right on your face where you deserve it?
SLUT
November 23rd, 2008 at 3:12 am
To anonymous just right above, Hello Sonia or Ju Nn or Team Sonia & Ju Nn or whoever you are,
You're Rude. A decent and mature person wouldn't write such thing.Or maybe, you just don't care and rather be, well, just ill-mannered and I wonder why. You relate much details as if you yourself are accustomed to such behaviours.
I propose you look into yourself as a person. Is that what you want to potray yourself to others? Why be anonymous in the first place to diss? Clearly, you have major inferiority issues.
I mean seriously, we need less of your kinds and more of well, good natured people.
So, why not be kind for a start?
-Mel-
November 23rd, 2008 at 4:25 am
wow that 2nd last anonymous is a real genuine IDIOT herself (must be a girl to have *that* much jealousy inside of her)
Accusing someone of all those things that are not even remotely true? Of course, why would that idiot know or think all that, unless she’s the one conjuring up all those lies and making them into rumors! Maybe that coward anonymous is just looking into all the bad (slutty) traits of her own ugly self, and tries to pinpoint it onto Cynthia now
Just like she is capable of hitting someone and now her reputation is in shambles. She wanted Cynthia to catfight her back but she did not, hence Cyn’s the better person, and of course those girls will not be satisfied! IDIOTS i tell you